Poll for men: If you could choose a professional life for: a girl you like, love, date, want to marry, are already married to etc... what would it be? (and i know you cant choose this, itsjust that i heard something funny today and wanna check it
591 deviants saidIm a girl and i wanna see the results
58 deviants saidIt would be nice if we both have the same/similar professional achievements.
17 deviants saidShe would have better professional achievements than mine
9 deviants saidNo, theres no option for "i dont care" put yourself in the situation you could actually choose this, just for pretend, no one will know what you answered.
3 deviants saidShe would have no professional life.
3 deviants saidShe would have less succesful professional achievements than i have.
Haha, one of my speech coaches told us if we ever get the chance to marry a gorgeous woman who makes twice as much as we do, we should take it. And yes, he said girls were included in that advice (His wife is a beautiful woman who makes twice as much as he does cause he's a teacher and she's a doctor or something like that...)
Honestly speaking, I'd love it if she were more successful than me- it would mean that together we would have a very stable lifestyle (outside of the fact that I'm in the military) and having one of those is a very good thing for a family.
Also, I'm not one of those guys that feels like I must be the primary provider for the family, and I'm able and willing to take on non-traditional roles for guys. (Except for cooking- I suck at cooking. )