i was speechless while reading, and now im seriously concerned but feel completely useless. i cant give any decent response (im pretty sure one the few i did reply was a terrible, inmature joke, im sorry)) to the very insightfull comments ive read. i do not feel capable or qualified to reply.
youll never be bullied by me
ill tell you a little story too, im not proud, and then i am. when i was a little kid (like 6 or 7) i was kind of mean, as some kids are. and apparently i was once super mean to a girl named Consuelo (i dont remember this, my mother told me actually) the thing is Cosuelos mom called mine cause i said something super mean to her and i should apologize. I did apologize. Consuelo and i are super good friends now and hang out every monday, mostly at her place heheh
i know i got out of that "mean" stage pretty quickly after i got a horrible haircut and got bullied myself (and my kiddy boyfriend dumped me) but i know i cant compare that kind of kiddy bullying to those that ive read here, but still its a nice story, why not share it?







I can happily say I'm no longer like that in the least. I tend to be pretty non-judgmental all the time. Though I wish other people would realize how even the tiny comments can affect kids. Growing up in the south, it's sadly still pretty common.
we have all done things we are not proud of, the important thing is you became friends with her afterall
people don't have to like you.
many people react to strangeness with hostility, to weakness with aggression.
many people are dicks.
I figured THAT out when I was 7years old. Nothing I've learned subsequently has significantly altered that observation.
Grow stronger. Exercise judgement about what you reveal of yourself. Develop and nurture skills, knowledge, and accomplishment that bullies cannot touch.
Oh, and crush bullies in a humiliating fashion, if you can.